Am I just imagining this, or ----- (sm)
Posted By: Flibertygibbit on 2008-04-08
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have things gotten a little dull here? Seems like lots of the funnier, edgier posters are no longer here. No more arguments. No much venting. Not as much of anything that made this board so interesting in the past. Used to be, a single days' posts covered at least 2 pages... now it's just a third, maybe half a page. I've been away for a while. What's going on?
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AMBIENT ABUSE
The fostering, propagation and enhancement of an atmosphere of fear, intimidation, instability, unpredictability and irritation. There are no acts of traceable explicit abuse, nor any manipulative settings of control.
Yet, the irksome feeling remains, a disagreeable foreboding, a premonition, a bad omen. This is sometimes called "gaslighting". In the long term, such an environment erodes one's sense of self-worth and self-esteem.
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