Also,

Can an agreement be made that for items costing over a certain amount, both partners have to have input on it?  Could both of you live up to an agreement?  Reading your post further (about buying the pool) makes me wonder if he is applying the "what is good for the goose is good for the gander rule."

• Crying all morning.....sm - He just doesn't get it
  • sweet guy - michelle
    • Yeah, you're delusional. nm - OP
      • Sorry to have responded that way (sm) - OP
        • He is treating you like a child sm - L
          • Sorry about the typos, been up all night and can't see straight or spell it seems. nm - L
  • That's really not nice of him, you poor thing - nnn
  • You've been married 15 years - mt
    • Well I haven't done it peacefully though (sm) - OP
  • Ugh. Reminds me of (sm) - Me
  • I commiserate... - Hubie
    • Also, - Hubie
      • He may be....but $300 pool versus a $30,000 truck, and a boat, etc., etc.? nm - OP
        • I didn't mean he was right ... - Hubie
          • That is a good idea. I can try that...again (sm) - OP
  • When I asked why it was ok for him to pick out a truck and a boat without me (sm) - He just doesn't get it
    • actually, you might remind him - gert
      • to gert... - nnn
        • actually, I did consider that. LOL. - gert

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