According to my calculations you are

Posted By: elaine on 2007-02-15
In Reply to: What do you think of this scenario? - Lee

54 years old - my age exactly. You have not said how long you have been married or how many children/grandchildren you have. This is not just about you - you have lived long enough to realize that. This goes any further and you are hurting a ton of people and for what? This is new and exciting just like your current husband was at one time - are you willing to throw all that away and chance everything on this? Pretty scary. I'd advise you to send him an email and tell him it was a huge mistake for you to write back - close the account - wish him the best and forget it. It will be hard but it is for the best at this time. Good luck.

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What do you think of this scenario? - Lee
- I can understand how you can get caught up in the excitement (sm) - anon
- while it might be tempting, know that the GRASS - is NEVER greener elsewhere....sm
- Inquiring minds want to know.... - MT in CO
- VERY wrong! What would - :-l
- Stop living in your little bubble world.... - bubbles pop...... ya know
- Fantasy is always better than real life - - missy
- Watch Carrie Underwood's video...sm - Dewglo
  - Reminds me of this one....lol - sm
    - Yep, same story, same results... cheaters never win. nm - Dewglo
- Only that this is strange, because a similar - sm
- Sounds like you're the "jerk" - MT in MT
- Hope you have a happy ending to your story....sm - flybye
- Old saying, what - Jan
- It happens. - pdqtrans
- This scenario... - MT
- Might be exciting now, but future will be grim. SM - cm
  - adding the excitement back - in your marriage
    - No offense, but she needs a more explicit book. With pictures, for SM - cm
- I really cannot add any more to all of the --sm - nn
- Been there, done that...not proud of it - (sm)
- Me thinketh it stinketh. nm - Wannie
- Shocking to me that people cannot demonstrate - better self control. You'll get what you deser
- So, you would be okay with your husband - doing the same thing.....right?
  - *touche* - GREAT response!!!.... - would NOT have posted at all....s/m
- YOU KNOW THE ANSWER.....you - shouldn't even have to want feedback!!
  - ya got that right! Poster DOES know or else she - would NOT have posted at all....s/m
- According to my calculations you are - elaine
  - why is it that women SEEM to be desperate in.... - in their 50s?..........very curious.....sm
- PLEASE...don't do it... - sm
  - I have seen people get married from meeting..nm - online and I have seen marriages destroyed
- remember you have RECONNECTED via internet..... - I'd not trust the entire thing.........sm
- Do you LOVE your husband? Want to spend your golden years with him?? Drop this fantasy at - least until you're single again due to death or
  - ..divorce. That would be the only time to start with an old flame. nm - No flames here. nm
    - That's what we're talking about - Lee
      - When you said when you are BOTH free - Jane
      - better post than your first one *LOL* - I'd not trust the entire thing.........sm
- You are playing with fire and someone is going to get burned. sm - Me
  - I can understand how you can get caught up in the excitement (sm) - anon
  - What do you think of this scenario? - ME2

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