A very good friend of mine had ablation and no regrets.
Posted By: sm on 2008-01-03
In Reply to: I think you have the right procedure; - truffle
She has no more periods. This is just a little over a year, and she was having very serious problems, had to have transfusion twice due to the heavy bleeds prior. She was willing to try this before hysterectomy, and it worked for her.
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Sounds like friend of mine
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I love them too...a friend of mine got me hooked..
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Sounds likea control freak and a doormat. Friend of mine just divorced after 23 yrs of being the
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I have a good friend who had it....
She did great. She said the key is to do EXACTLY as the doctor says - no cheating. She has lost 150 pounds, and looks and feels wonderful.
Cat UR such a Good Friend! But why
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A very good friend once said...
*If you can raise a puppy, then raising a child is easy...*
I think you are on the right track. It's hard to remember that puppies need patience just like young children do. I have a Corgi boy that did not train as fast as I thought he should, but he did get there after about 6-7 months. For me, since it was my first time, I had no idea how long it would take. It would probably go faster a 2nd time around. From some reading I did, it sounded like it should be in a matter of days, and some dogs just do not fit that mold.
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1 best friend, 3 or 4 really good ones, and
lots of casual ones. My best friend lives clear across the country. :(
My other good friends are within 30-70 miles, I see them a couple times month, the other more casual ones, I see every week at the roller rink.
I have a good friend who used to be a stripper....sm
She was still a good person. You would never know she was a stripper just by meeting her. She didn't look the type. But she was. She said she made good money. She quit because she got tired of perverted men. She said they were degrading to you sometimes.
If your friend is good at measuring... sm
and cutting, certainly it can be done. I re-did the floor with vinyl and it came out fine. Learn from my mistake--make sure ALL lumps and bumps, no matter how small they seem, are smoothed out before the adhesive cures. I had the counters done by a pro, but the guys were great and explained everything to me. It actually *seemed* pretty easy, but I bought Corian solid surface, so it had to be cut in the factory and delivered. Can the cabinets just be updated with new doors? Go to a big hardware store (Lowe's, Home Depot) and check out their sample rooms. This helped me determine what type of material to use, style of sink surround, colors, etc. It took me over a month to decide what to get. Have fun! It's hard work, but I love DIY stuff.
If you are interested, I had to Google my countertop material and came up with this: http://homerenovations.about.com/od/kitchens/a/artcounters.htm
I had same question. Daughter of good friend SM
had large wedding, married for less than two years, now she is getting married again. She was very immature when she got married the first time. Her parents never let her date and so she married the first guy she dated!
I suppose the nice thing is respect the first marriage "didn't count" and, hopefully, this one will.
My good friend has family over there -checked BBC, (sm)
and everywhere, couldn't find anything. Many apologies. At least I got to tell my friend so she could call her family.
Good friend had this, had MANY complications, infections, PEG tube, ICU, etc. Put
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Married good friend of my deceased husband
I knew him for over 30 years and yet didn't know him. He is very quiet, reserved, shy and when husband died called after 12 days to invite me to the zoo- I had no idea he had ever seen me to tell the truth. Bottom line months later he told me had loved me since the first day he saw me and "just waited."
Some good advice, but mine is much simpler....
Stay away from the ones that have children!!! ; )
I got mine of good 'ol E-Bay...cheaper that way!
I didn't buy from the company directly. I first tried a sampler size pack from QVC a few years ago, fell in love, and then bought full-size from E-Bay. I do the same with Proactive cleanser...I will never buy direct from those companies that insist on hooking people into some sort of "program." Crooks I tell ya!
Ablation
And it was the best thing I could have done! Didn't take long to do the procedure, under anesthesia...out of the hospital in about 2 hours. Quite a bit of pain afterwards that night, but the next day I was good. I would highly recommend this procedure. It's been a lifesaver for me. Good luck!
Ablation?
Anyone every had an ablation? Is anyone in perimenopause and having a lot of symptoms? I am 47 and think that's what is going on. I have been told I should have an ablation done on the uterus. Any suggestions? Heavy "P" is a real drag lasting 3 weeks or more. WIll this procedure help?
Ablation
I had one almost two years ago. It didn't work for me. I just underwent a supracervical hysterectomy on Tuesday....
Go for ablation
I am 45 and had been having trouble with my periods for the last couple years. Doc said not perimenopausal. I disagreed! I had the procedure done and did have alot of pain with it that night, but the next morning it was gone. It is the best thing I have ever done. It has been about 6 months and I have one "afternoon" I spot and that is it. I would recommend it to anyone. 
Good grief - I hope not!!! Mine was not pretty! nm
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Mine was 752J. Good heavens! I still remember that!???
yet can't remember names or phone numbers of my kids. 
Uterine ablation.
So you had the ablation, which helped heavy bleeding, but did nothing for the PMS symptoms? I was going to have that done, but I felt there were not enough studies to show that it was safe. Light spotting each month would be great instead of the heavy periods causing back and leg pain. PCP thinks I have endometriosis, but nothing on pelvic ultrasound. I have thought about laparoscopic exploration, but now it seems to be better (not as painful in the back or legs) for the last two months. Oh gosh... neverending story.... 
I would decline the IUD - that is the ablation's job
Every literature strongly states an ablation is not for anyone who plans to get pregnant as it kills the lining of the uterus and cannot support a pregnancy. When I had the period at the end of the steroids, I was expressing strips of endometrial lining about 2 mm wide and just under 1 cm long that were pitch black. I even had that with the second the third periods.
I had an IUD infection when I was in my late teens and would not recommend one to my worst enemy, although my daughter has a 10-year IUD. You need to ask if the IUD that is recommended releases hormones. Most do these days. Personally, I would see no difference between OCPs and a hormone releasing IUD. My daughter has few periods...only about 1 every 3-4 months...but they are intense.
I guess your doctor is just trying to be doubly certain you don't get pregnant, but for me, I would refuse the IUD after an ablation. I have transcribed reports on different ablations, and from the technique I think NovaSure provides the greatest chance of having a successful ablation. (my GYN offered 2 different ones and after I read up on both, I choice the NovaSure).
Since you are in a relationship, you certainly don't want to take a chance on getting pregnant again. I haven't been with anyone since my ablation (long story, but a personal choice) so unless I drink something in the water, I would have a miracle conception! You could always decide about the IUD later if you were not happy with the ablation results.
Hope you get some help :)
Endometrial ablation
I went back through the forum search and found ladies who were glad they underwent this. I'm scheduled for it in a couple weeks and I am wondering if y'all still felt the same about it, or if any more of you have had it done?
I know that NO periods are not guaranteed afterward, but I must confess I'm hoping for this result. I'm 50, so maybe I'm close to the end of menses anyway. One can only hope!
Anyone had an endometrial ablation? (sm)
I am tired of these monster periods....I have heard that some people are now having endometrial ablations rather than hysterectomies...a friend of mine had one and has no more periods. However, the sites that I read say that it only reduces bleeding and only temporarily. Anyone know? Is there another name for the procedure I am thinking of that causes permanent ending of the period without having a surgical hysterectomy?
endometrial ablation
I had one in December 2005 and I've been quite pleased. It stopped my periods and my cramps. My periods had gotten quite painful and I'd bleed for days, so my GYN advised me to do this, so I did, and I'm very happy that I did. I've had absolutely no problems whatsoever.
Had ablation 3 years ago, having hysterectomy
I first asked my GYN about a hysty when I was 38. I was very irregular and never knew when I would start, except that I figured out that the days I stood in the shower and cried my heart out was always the day prior to starting. He said I was too young.
Fast forward to age 43. GYN recommended lap supracervical hysty but agreed to trying Novasure ablation to buy some time. For the past 3 years, I had only light spotting for half a day and my emotions were better, but still I felt I was overly emotional than what I expected from the surgery.
In January I had to take a Medrol Dosepak for something. On the same day as my last dose, I had a full-blown period. I have now had 3 in 40 days. They are worse than ever. I'm scheduled for a hysterectomy on Monday.
If you do consider an ablation, my advice is to stay away from steroids! It did buy some time for me, but combined with another health problem I have had (IBS/celiac sprue), I have been miserable for a year and I'm eager for this surgery!
No regrets to any of those.
Now ask me about regrets of letting my ass get as wide as it is or not getting braces when I was younger...or not becoming a pilot, or choosing the right Powerball numbers, or not being the inventor of the wheel....
regrets
I don't regret my first marriage or my 3 children through that marriage. They have brought me more joy than I ever imagined possible (I am blessed with great kids). I do regret that divorce though I had no control over it.
I do regret my 2nd marriage(a very short one) - and don't regret that divorce which I initiated. You live and learn I guess. I think at 49 I'm finally starting to get it right. 
not really regrets, but
I can see how much easier my life could have been had I chosen to get married a little later in life (I got married at 18), after having some independence first. I also think it could have been easier if I had chosen to have kids about 5 years or so later (waited nearly 5 years). Then again, I'm so glad all 3 of my kids have been sleeping through the night since I was about 29 years old. I don't know how those who have children later tolerate that part of it. I love my uninterrupted sleep.
Overall, though, I am blessed with 3 great kids and a husband of nearly 21 years. It has been very, very tough, but no regrets. :)
No Regrets At All
I didn't get married until I was 30 and had my last child (2nd) at 41. I wouldn't change it for anything in the world. I'm very happy with my life,my husband and my daughters. It's sad that some people regret getting married and/or having children, although I don't know everyone's circumstances and I don't judge others because of that.
Regrets...
I guess I would say I regret my first marriage (I very young, we had 2 children, but he was a wife beater) but my kids would not be here if not for him...I regret my very short 2nd marriage (very nice guy, handsome, had a great job) he deserved someone better than me, he smothered me too much with love and I could not handle it...but then I would never have met husband # 3 who is wonderful, all that #2 was and more, but I am older and wiser now...this is it, no more husbands for me!
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