mea culpa

Posted By: cj on 2009-08-26
In Reply to: here's why people are getting heated... - Deb - sm

Although I do think a lot of people here were just rude to the OP and way to quick to jump all over her, your post made me look at this whole thread differently. Your post is eloquent and accurate. Perhaps many of these people are bitter because they do not have the choices the OP has, but I don't see that as a reason to be so darned rude to her. How about everyone respecting her right to make her choice and being happy that she has that choice instead of begrudging her situation? I think that would have made their responses far more palatable. I apologize to anyone who I have offended in this thread.

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I just declined a position with a wonderful company due to - the one-day weekend requirement. SM
- Medical field is 24/7 work unless you work for a clinic or stand alone operation. - Goes with it
- I did it for about 18 years because if - linda
- here's why people are getting heated... - Deb - sm
  - Deb, I am the original poster, and I want to - OP
    - that's the thing about Internet forums - sm - Deb
  - excellent post nm - linda
  - mea culpa - cj
  - The thread should end with THIS post - Well put!!!
- Well, lots of people.... - Weekend work
- I work both Saturday and Sunday... - MT
  - You do what works for you. - sm
    - Yes, did I say anything different? - MT
  - If you are working every weekend, that is only by your choice..sm - KyMT
    - Exactly! Everything is about choice... - MT
  - 24/7 - cj
    - Have you ever heard the word STAT? - MT
      - well.... - cj
        That is only the case... - MT
        That's the company's bogus answer - CurmudgeonMT
- I am in your boat... - NMMT
- I know you said you already declined but - flowerchild
  - Thank you for your concern, let me explain - OP
    - OP, I was with you until...sm - cindylouwho
      - Where did I make people that work weekends - OP
        You never said any of those things. I've followed this entire thread - & it's gotten way off topic! KyMT nm
      - You and your hubby sound like awesome parents! sm - KyMT
    - OP, just pay NO MIND. As you said, sm - darlene
    - You don't owe these bitter MTs an explaination! Too many of us on here...sm - KyMY
      - You know what I have noticed, the ones - OP
        Amen Sister! You've said everything that needs to be said! Let's move on! nm - KyMT
    - Not buying your retraction for a second - Yeah right, uh huh
      - The above post proves my point! You are out of line and that was uncalled for..sm - KyMT
        Oh, I DO have a life - Wanna Compare?
        Nope. I'm thru with this thread. I made my point. We all just need to agree to disagree with b - KyMT
        it was NEMT and I didn't push anyone out of the running - because I declined! HAHA!!
        HAHA DUH...Guess what? - Such logic, lol!
        I have every right to apply whereever I want... - OP
        It's YOUR conscience, fellow MT - As long as you think you're cool
      - I am not deceptive, nor am I a bully... - OP
        If you think I'M a bully you're incredibly naive - Yes, definitely not in reality
        Sorry, but yeah you really are being a bully.x - nm
    - I didn't mean for my post to come off as bashing - flowerchild
      - No I seriously meant....Thank you for your concern... - OP
- a WONDERFUL job and how do sm - MT30+
  - Some of you take yourselves way too seriously!! - Agree with OP
    - First of all, I do not think of myself sm - MT30+
    - Well said!! This thread is way off topic now b/c some . - just want to argue! nm
  - I knew it wouldn't take long for a flamer to post...sm - KyMT
    - To start with... - Devil'sAdvocate
      - Heb. 10:24, 25 - mom
      - Mathew 18:10, "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst o - KyMT
        Read carefully - Bitter? LOL!!!
        "Taking up valuable time of MTSO." You're digging deep now! - nm
        So, you're under the impression - ???
        What in the world would make you think someone is unhappy who has not stated so? Diggin deeper - nm
        You have read me entirely wrong...sm - KyMT
        You are 100% correct, my income is "extra" - OP
        that says a lot. You would change sm - MT30+
        Explain yourself. Are you upset that - OP
      - What a sorry piece of work you are and - such a horrible attitude. nm
        Honesty a problem for you? - How interesting
        You asked for a verse, and so I gave you one! sm - KyMT
    - FIND A DIFFERENT PROFESSION IF YOU DON'T WANT W/ENDS!! - mho
      - and the reason the MTSOs get away with it.. - cj
        Geeze you just don't get it do you? sm - MT30+
        yeah, I do get it. - cj
        so you found a company that sm - MT30+
        OMG MT30+ you are completely twisting everything - j
        so you found a company that sm - MT30+
        Exactly!! nm - KyMT
      - No these jobs are expendable. Once these certain MTSOs realize...sm - KyMT
- I did a quick count and there are 52 posts regarding this. - and really only a handful
  - I did a post on this once and MTs were vicious...sm - KyMT
  - Actually, it is much like working in the hospital - with all the sniping, sm
    - Au contraire, working in-house usually means weekends - Or rotating weekends
- holy cow! - cj
- You have to work hours that are the best sm - stressed no more
- I worked that shift for 7 years, ever since I started doing - ndmt
- Weekend work - DMZ
- Welcome to Healthcare - stillmting
  - BS! Doctors, nurses, pharmacists, & even cops rotate wkends! That's a poor - argument that doesn't hold water! nm
  - No, it is not entirely 24/7 - CurmudgeonMT
    - You must not live in an urban area. - sm
      - but the question is - flowerchild
      - I live in a rural area and all we have are the - mlstoo
        It's the same way in urban areas, too. - CurmudgeonMT
        That's your experience. The hospital I work for - sm
        and that may be your experience but... - cj
        I agree, much better said than my post! nm - flowerchild
    - Exactly!!!!! nm - ncmt
- I don't have little kids, so that may be the difference, but (sm) - Mushroom
- I work for every Saturday - Tired&CrankyMT
- weekend work - MTmom
  - meant to say "uninterrupted." nm - MTmom
- Did you try to negotiate at all? sm - OtherEye
- Most companies these days require a - ht
  - 24/7, Yes; Full Staffing, No. - CurmudgeonMT
- I don't see this post as being a sm - mlstoo
  - It was an IC position that is the joke! - and thank you for seeing my post for what it is wo
    - Sorry about that, if I read down below sm - mlstoo
- I've been doing that for a year, and HATE it. - ncmt
- I have that schedule - NorCalMT
- Wonderful job and you passed it by because - Kathie
  - Prima Donna? Are you serious?? Maybe you need a good weekend off..or Prozac! nm - KyMT
    - KyMT read her post below...she doesn't - jj
  - LADIES - Get a grip! - Agree with OP
    - Me work days, nights and weekends? - Kathie
      - Are you the same Kathie that called me (the OP) - OP
  - More from the sourpuss peanut gallery - - me
    - In this day and age, a weekend day is totally...sm - I'm NOT an MTSO but...
    - Bad when cannot think of anything else to say - Kathie
- Wahhh, I have to work a weekend..... - ohplease
  - No one here, including the OP whined about working..sm - KyMT
  - "if you can't bear that, find another job". - did you not read where OP said she Declined Positi
    - Yes, sweetheart, I did see that. - ohplease
      - AMEN SISTER!!!!! nm - MT30+
      - The beauty of it is we DON'T HAVE TO FIND ANOTHER PROFESSION! sm - KyMT
      - Hey.... - steppin on toes
  - ohplease - Boy this name just says it all. NM necessary. - Agree with Op
  - Why not offer constructive advice... - MTmom
  - Be realistic. Someone has always had to work the weekends (sm) - nn
  - So sad - MTrobot
    - Funny how anyone who has - ohplease
      - MOM - is that you? - Me
  - Wowzers... - saving grace
  - thank you, peanut gallery - me
    - Neither honey. Just a grown woman - ohplease
      - A GROWN woman? - me
- Oh please... - SM
  - Did you just walk into the end of this conversation? You really - need to read the posts! nm
  - I would re-read your OWN post - me
- I just started working about 3 months ago - wannie
  - another nurse turned MT already sm - long time MT
    - What's it to you when or what she does?? How does this effect your life?? - This ain't about you! nm
    - What better reason is there? - CynicalMT
- I agree! I posted on this a while back and...sm - KyMT
  - Who says you have to give up... - me
    - I worship God everyday. Here's what I miss out on...sm - KyMT
- I agree one billion percent! - Regina Phalanges
  - Didn't you know? - MTrobot
  - totally agree - doubleduty
    - I agree to that as well - MTrobot
    - I am the OP, and I cannot the reaction of you - PEOPLE.
      - OP--Don't be disheartened - MTrobot
        Very Well Said! - Regina Phalanges
      - That should read "I cannot believe the reaction..." - oh and be sure to bash me about that too
        I just want to say - gourdpainter
        GP, you said it all right there.... - cj
        Boy you said it, CJ - gourdpainter
        Yes, me too. I know how OP feels. I also SM - Sally Forth
      - Would you like some cheese with that whine? - NM

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